I'm sorry to make anyone worry.  I got all your messages, and honestly, your concern right now was much needed.  I've really been struggling lately ( Read more... )

( RE: talking with J )

No, we're not splitting up the household, but it was a very close thing ( Read more... )

What a bear of a topic.  I've stayed away from anything that was critical of my partners deliberately.  Every family has disagreements.  Everyone in any relationship has issues to deal with.  I don't care if the only issue you face is a partner who won't put the lid back on the toothpaste, living together comes with it's challenges.  Polyamory is ( Read more... )

This is actually inspired by a series of rather heated discussions in a group on FaceBook.  I'll be linking this post to that group when I'm done but I wanted to post it here because the topic DOES come up pretty often ( Read more... )

I keep logging in to post, and then I just can't seem to think what to say.  It's not that nothing is happening, it's just I suddenly go *blank* at the sight of the screen.  This post will, because of said blocks, ramble.  I may revisit a topic after bouncing away from it... I don't know, I'm just going to write and see what happens.
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I'm gonna do it.  I'm sick to death of this.  I can't stand it any longer ( Read more... )

I know, I've gotten awful about posting updates.  I've just honestly been that busy!  I finally took a 3-day weekend for myself this week.  This is day 3 and I'm really wishing I had a week off, instead of 3 days.  Ah well, I'll have the week off later this year. Must save up my vacation time so I can go and finally meet my grandson!

( Kids and Grandson )

I've talked the idea of finding a sub over with Cw.  Last night I talked it over with a friend who gives good insight on my thought processes.  I've been thinking directly about the entire concept all week.  I even gave myself a list of questions to consider.

The questions I asked were about my motivations, expectations, what I have available ( ( Read more... )

I'm thinking seriously about starting to date again after I get a car, which will happen within the next four weeks.  I'll have the freedom to get myself around to places and go without needing a ride or relying on bus schedules.  I'll also have my work schedule set finally.  Training will be out soon, thus the need for a car after seven yrs ( Read more... )